Sunday 3 April 2011

Getting The Love You Want is a Science

Everyone wants to be loved. When it comes to getting the love you want, it's very important to make sure you are in tune with yourself. You need to have dreams and aspirations for your life. This way, when you do find a life partner, you can be confident in yourself and make it obvious of what you want in life. You can certainly have the love you want and be content while finding it. When you are true to yourself and respect others, love will find you.
When you are looking for getting the love you want you will first need to make sure you basically know what it is that you want. Take a little time and write your list down. As you are writing, you should visualize yourself with these things so that you can be confident of receiving them. Also, when you take the time to write the list down, you can then pull it out later on in life and see if you have truly stuck to your guns and accomplished what you wanted in life. Many times folks will write down precisely what it is that they want in a partner and will see that if they stick to their plan, they will have precisely what they are dreaming about.
After you have written down your goals, share them with your partner or someone you care about. When your partner knows your goals for getting the love that you want, they will more than likely help you get what you want. However, you will find that if you are with the wrong person they will not care about your goals and this is the time to push on. When you habitually communicate with your partner, you will find that they are more pleased to give you what you want. And, this happens both ways. When they communicate with you, you will be more content to give them the love that they want as well .
Getting the love you want may appear as though it is complicated and obscure. However , if you take the time and look into your own life and truly learn what it is that you are looking for, you will more than likely find it in the extremely unlikely of places. Everyone can find true love. All they must be is be open and happy to accept whatever it is that comes their way.
When you are looking for getting the love you want you will first need to make sure you actually know what it is that you want. Take some time and write your list down. As you are writing, you should visualize yourself with these things so that you can be confident of receiving them. Also, when you take the time to write the list down, you can then pull it out later in life and see if you have truly stuck to your guns and accomplished what you wanted in life. Many times people will write down exactly what it is that they want in a partner and will see that if they stick to their plan, they will have exactly what they are dreaming of.
After you have written down your goals, share them with your partner or someone you care about. When your partner knows your goals for getting the love that you want, they will more than likely help you get what you want. However, you will find that if you are with the wrong person they will not care about your goals and this is the time to move on. When you consistently communicate with your partner, you will find that they are more willing to give you what you want. And, this happens both ways. When they communicate with you, you will be more willing to give them the love that they want as well.
Getting the love you want may seem as though it is difficult and vague. However, if you take the time and look into your own life and truly find out what it is that you are looking for, you will more than likely find it in the most unlikely of places. Everyone can find true love. All they need to be is be open and willing to accept whatever it is that comes their way.

Quitting Smoking It's Your Health

Quitting Smoking It's Your Health
stop smoking picDespite all of the knowledge available, smoking is still one of the leading preventable causes of disease and death in the world. 
Smoking is extremely addictive, and it does not take long before you find yourself craving cigarettes.  Recent statistics show that every cigarette you smoke takes six minutes off of your life. 
This means that smoking one pack a day takes away two hours off your life.  Just imagine how many days that becomes over an entire lifetime, and you may begin searching for quit smoking aids or natural ways to quit smoking.

People should quit smoking, why? 

There are a million reasons.  Smoking affects just about every part of your body from your lungs to your heart, and even your kidneys and liver.  The biggest risks for smokers are lung cancer and emphysema.  Cigarette smoking stops the lungs from normal functioning, inhibiting breathing and damaging the lung tissue. 

Though most smoking related damage can be repaired over time if you quit smoking, emphysema cannot be reversed once you have it.  Heart disease is also a concern for smokers.  Smoking causes greatly increased risk of heart disease, especially if you are also overweight, inactive or have high cholesterol.  If you have heart disease in your family, you should quit smoking immediately to reduce your chances of a heart attack.
Smoking can also increase your risk for having a stroke, especially if you are a woman taking birth control pills.  This combination can be deadly and should be stopped immediately if you are a woman over the age of thirty.  Smoking also causes decreased circulation that can lead to blood clots, especially later in life.  It can also increase diabetic symptoms in those suffering from the disease.

There is no best quit smoking way.  However, if you are ready to quit, there are a variety of different methods to choose from that can help you along the way.  For instance, there are natural quit smoking aids, along with medication smoking stop methods.  Natural methods include acupuncture cessation smoking treatments and hypnosis.  Medications such are Wellbutrin are also known to help cut down on cigarette cravings.

There are also a variety of smoking free videos available that can help kick the habit.  There are a million tested ways to quit smoking, but the most important part of beating nicotine addiction is willpower. 
You can solicit quit smoking support from the American Lung Association.  They provide smokers with free literature, and they also sponsor support groups all over the country.  Once you realize the dangers of smoking, it becomes a little easier to quit.  You have a hard road ahead of you, but with the benefits of quitting, it becomes at least a little bit easier.

Sunday 27 March 2011

Hamba Cinta



Ah! Cinta lagi! Nak buat macam mana.. Memang mood aku dalam jajahan cinta, tak kiralah ianya gembira ataupun duka.. Yang pasti sekarang nie dah tentulah mood aku dalam keadaan duka.. Huhu.. Sebab tu lah aku katakan cinta itu membosankan! Sebab macam nie la.. Aku tak tau sampai bila aku boleh bertahan..
Memang jika bercinta nie segalanya berubah.. Dari hati hinggalah persekitaran.. Faham maksud aku? Silalah kaji dengan penuh hemah sebab aku sendiri tiada bahasa sesuai hendak digunakan.. Aku kadang² mempertahankan personaliti aku agar tak lari dari landasan diri.. Tapi aku pon manusia jugak.. Tergelincir kadangkala memeritkan! Mengacu semula ke pangkal memang bukan kerja yang aku suka.. Sebab ianya penat!
Ah! Aku dah mula lesu! Akhirnya aku terkandas jauh.. Aku dah mula layu dalam hati sendiri.. Mana pergi dulu hati aku yang kental! Aku kan berjiwa gagah.. Mana boleh kalah! Tapi memang betul.. Cinta itu mampu membunuh! Bunuh hati, bunuh minda, bunuh iman, yang dibiarkan hidup cuma nafsu!
Apa semua nie? Apa kena mengena ngarutan semua nie dengan tajuk di atas? Ermm.. Cinta itu mampu memerintah.. Segala yang ada dalam diri mampu ditundukkannya.. Maka berwaspadalah.. Sekali ia bermaharajalela beribu kalilah ia akan memperhambakan.. Cari batasan supaya si raja cinta itu tak mampu menjalar keseluruhannya..
Aku anggap pembaca aku semua dah matang.. Mampu berfikir dan menganalisa.. Yang penting ‘kenal’ dan ‘beza’..
Otak aku semakin celaru! Buktinya entry nie la.. Mengarut jer.. Semua citer tergantung.. (menteil kan suka mentersiratkan.. haha..)
Aku akan jarang  update lepas nie.. Banyak keje nak kena buat..
Ramai sudah perwira dan pemimpin akhirnya bodoh dan malu dengan cinta..

Saturday 26 March 2011

Setiap hari yg berlalu merupakan mukasurat diari kehidupan kita. Kita yang menentukannya apa coraknya, ramuannya dan sebagainya. Kekadang hari yang yg kita lalui tidak seindah yang diharapkan. Kita merungut, meyumpah dan sebagainya. Apakan daya kita yg merancangan kehidupan kita sedemikian. tak dinafikan perancangn Yang Maha Esa lebih tepat tapi ini tidak boleh dijadikan alasan untuk meyerahkan segalanya bulat2 kepada-Nya.kekadang ada org meyalahkan takdir atas apa yang berlaku.ada yang berserah sepenuhnya kepada takdir .Pandangan itu wajar dilontar jauh. Cuba kita fikirkan sejenak.mengapa kita di wujudkan dimuka bumi ini? untuk apa? jika tahu jawapannya mungkin kita akan hargai setiap detik yg kita lalui pada hari tersebut.andai manusia boleh memutar kembali masa yang lalu, maka tiadalah sejarah. Sejarahlah yang menjadiian kehidupan ini lebih mencabar untuk diterokai. Mungkin setakat ni saja yg aku mahu blogkan..Mungkin ada or menganggap benda ini remeh tapi fikir-fkirkanlah........